LGBTQ+ victims of domestic abuse

We recognise the ways in which lesbian, gay, bisexual people and trans people can experience abuse and the barriers that can sometimes prevent you from accessing support. Additionally, although heterosexual and LGBTQ+ people may experience similar patterns of domestic abuse, there are some specific issues that are unique to the experiences of LGBTQ+ people, which may include:

• The abuser threatening to disclose your sexual orientation or gender identity to family, friends, or work colleagues.
• The abuser using society’s gender norms and stereotyping to convince you that you will not be believed if you disclose abuse.
• The abuser undermining your sexual orientation or gender identity.
• The abuser controlling access to spaces and networks.
• The abuser making derogatory remarks about your gender identity or expression.

You may also experience increased isolation if you do not have a supportive family or friendship group.

We can provide a safe and supportive environment where you can discuss the issues you are facing in confidence, without fear of your sexual orientation or gender identity being shared. We can provide practical support around keeping safe and help with issues like housing that you have experienced due to the abuse. We can also help you to access other specialist agencies and services, such as welfare benefits, counselling and other support groups.